After the recent events at Virginia Tech last week, I, like many others, have been thinking about all of the things in life that I take for granted. I can't even imagine the grief that a school, which is so close to mine, is experiencing now. It is times like these that we all take a step back and recognize the amazing people that surround us and the opportunities we have been given to succeed. As I prepare for my post-graduate life, I think back on my college years about some of the assumptions I made and things that I thought were normal. So, here are some common misconceptions and things that I took for granted that you should really think about as you head out in to the real world.
- You don't automatically get a job and don't assume that anyone else does either. Some people get really stressed about the job search process, so help them out and don't be too boastful about your own successes (although you should be proud).
- Tell your friends you love them. They will be the ones who are always there for you. No matter how much success or good fortune you have, it won't be as sweet without your friends to share in your joys.
- Doing well academically is only as important as you make it to yourself. I only strived for good grades because I knew I would be disappointed with myself if I didn't. Although they matter, not nearly as much as you think.
- Take care of yourself and the rest will fall into place. It's okay to be selfish sometimes.
- Though this sounds contradictory to the previous comment, look out for others and listen when you can. Being a good listener can take you a long way.
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